Do you seek to build understanding when you communicate? (134-5)

Wise leaders develop the ability to communicate and sometimes must use words. Read Proverbs 10:6-32.

In Proverbs 10 Solomon uses phrases about the tongue and mouth of the leader to shed light on various elements of communication. Leaders who skillfully use their words increase their influence. According to verse 6 when they proclaim righteousness with their life (and mouth) they are blessed. Verse 11 tells leaders that when they speak hope for the future they become a fountain of life for others. Verses 13 and 14 show how a leader’s words can save others from ruin. Verse 19 speaks to the effective use of silence to communicate and verses 31 and 32 show that a leaders’ effective communication is more a product of their character than of their communication skills.

When a leader seeks to build a mutual understanding they enter the realm of true communication. Even though most leaders agree that good communication is essential for effective leadership, virtually all leaders are surprised by the extent to which open, honest two-way communication can actually benefit an organization. Wise leaders spend time and energy developing communication skills including verbal, physical, and non-verbal and are always aware that communication must flow from the heart not simply the mouth.

Matthew 15:18 “The things that come out of the mouth come from the heart.”